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Amish Grace: How Forgiveness Transcended Tragedy 1st Edition, Kindle Edition

4.6 4.6 out of 5 stars 386 ratings

This intelligent, compassionate and hopeful book” examines an Amish community’s extraordinary response to a horrifying act of violence (Publisher’s Weekly, starred review).
 
On October 2, 2006, a gunman named Charles Roberts entered a one-room Amish school in Nickel Mines, Pennsylvania. He took ten schoolgirls hostage, killing five and critically wounding the others before taking his own life. To explain his motivation, he told the children, “I’m angry at God for taking my little daughter.”
 
By the following morning, as television crews swarmed the village, the Amish parents were already prepared to offer forgiveness. Soon, this extraordinary act of grace became a bigger story than the terrible crime that preceded it.
Amish Grace explores the religious beliefs and habits that led the Amish to forgive so quickly.

The authors examines the importance of forgiveness among cloistered communal societies and ask why this act of forgiveness became news among secular society. With insight and compassion, the authors contemplate how the Amish community’s witness could prove useful to the rest of us.

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From Publishers Weekly

Starred Review. When a gunman killed five Amish children and injured five others last fall in a Nickel Mines, Pa., schoolhouse, media attention rapidly turned from the tragic events to the extraordinary forgiveness demonstrated by the Amish community. The authors, who teach at small colleges with Anabaptist roots and have published books on the Amish, were contacted repeatedly by the media after the shootings to interpret this subculture. In response to the questions why—and how—did they forgive? Kraybill and his colleagues present a compelling study of Amish grace. After describing the heartbreaking attack and its aftermath, the authors establish that forgiveness is embedded in Amish society through five centuries of Anabaptist tradition, and grounded in the firm belief that forgiveness is required by the New Testament. The community's acts of forgiveness were not isolated decisions by saintly individuals but hard-won countercultural practices supported by all aspects of Amish life. Common objections to Amish forgiveness are addressed in a chapter entitled, What About Shunning? The authors carefully distinguish between forgiveness, pardon and reconciliation, as well as analyzethe complexities of mainstream America's response and the extent to which the Amish example can be applied elsewhere. This intelligent, compassionate and hopeful book is a welcome addition to the growing literature on forgiveness. (Sept. 21)
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*Starred Review* The crime—shooting innocent schoolchildren in a one-room schoolhouse—was shockingly vicious. More shocking, virtually incredible, was where it happened, in the heart of Pennsylvania's Amish country, commonly associated with bucolic tranquility, not gun violence. This remarkable book explains, exceedingly well, Amish reaction to the horrific Nickel Mines shootings. The outside world was gravely taken aback by the Amish response of forgiveness. Some in the media criticized the Amish as naive and hypocritical (didn't they shun members of their own community?), but most simply couldn't understand the Amish concept of forgiveness as unmerited gift. How could they forgive humanly embodied evil? The authors, all authorities on Amish culture, emphasize that the Amish response reflected the sect's heritage and deeply embedded faith. They distinguish forgiveness from pardon and reconciliation. Forgiveness relinquishes the right to vengeance, while pardon forfeits punishment altogether, and reconciliation restores the relationship of victim and offender or creates a new one. They discuss the shooting mercifully straightforwardly before exploring the broader perspectives of forgiveness and concluding with reflections on the meaning of forgiveness. At times difficult to read, this anguished and devastating account of a national tragedy and a hopeful, life-affirming lesson in how to live is itself a marvel of grace. Sawyers, June

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  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B000XUBE7K
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Wiley; 1st edition (March 11, 2010)
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ March 11, 2010
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 3.5 MB
  • Text-to-Speech ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
  • Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Not Enabled
  • Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 258 pages
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Customers find the book insightful and interesting, providing a better understanding of the culture and religious beliefs of the Amish. They find the story about forgiveness wonderful and appreciated the author's representation of how forgiveness works within their world view. The book is well-written and easy to understand, making it a heartwarming and emotional read. Many readers describe it as thought-provoking and an eye-opener. However, some feel the book is repetitive and boring at times.

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  • Reviewed in the United States on January 9, 2009
    This is an exceptional book dealing with forgiveness, grace, grief, tragedy, justice, and revenge. Three very able authors (Donald B. Kraybill, Steven M. Nolt, & David L. Weaver-Zercher) bring their research and skills together to give us an account of the news-story that became even bigger than the coverage of an attack on school girls in the Amish community of Nickel Mines. "WE FORGIVE" was gently spoken by the quiet suffers, but then shouted by the media to the world. The world didn't quite understand.

    This book explains the difference. This book enlightens us that know too little of the communities recognized through buggies. Those of us who live close enough to frequently see the "plain folk", Amish who are often fictionalized in best sellers, now have a book opportunity to understand a bit more truth about their faith. "Amish Grace" is an eye opener as well as a gentle explanation of the Amish spirit. I suspect even the Amish community themselves will accept this honest look at their community and their ways.

    The book details the hideous act of the murders, but also goes further and educates the reader on some history and development of this one Pennsylvania community so violently attacked--an Amish 9-11. The final segment tries to pull together Amish and outsider reaction. Tries to compare differences. It helps find answers to media questions such as motives for the astonishingly quick forgiveness offered by the non-violent country people.

    This is a scholarly view of the event and aftermath. It is a religious, emotional, and intellectual look at strong faith and how that can "transcend" in times of crisis. It just may help bridge at least one chasm of bigotry--that against the Amish.

    I certainly gained much additional respect for those Amish willing to sacrifice for their belief. I am so glad I've read this book.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on January 20, 2016
    I had read and finally finished this past September Kraybill and co.'s book THE AMISH, a companion to the PBS Documentary. I would say that the PBS documentary was a companion and add-on to the BOOK, THE AMISH. The AMISH was very thorough. Kraybill mentioned briefly in the book the happening at Nickel Mines.

    After playing around with a few other books, nothing really satisfying, I came across Amish Grace, and saw that Kraybill had written it, and so bought it expecting what happened: a great book. Kraybill obviously wrote this book before he (and company) wrote THE AMISH. In fact, Amish Grace's appendix is a VERY condensed format of The Amish book. Enough about that book though, Amish Grace is a really good read.

    Reading it, some of the time I wondered if the chapter structure was too loose, as in, "Okay, I know this is in some ways, about Amish and forgiveness, but what does this have to do about Nickel Mines?" If you feel that way, know that in the end Kraybill and co. bring it around to say, "Now that you've learned this, here's how it applies to what happened at Nickel Mines." I know and have heard that there is a Lifetime movie about this incident, and I have yet to see it, and don't know if I will. If I did, it would be purely for entertainment purposes, but even then

    (1) Watching a movie about people who don't watch TV doesn't seem right
    (2) Watching a movie to be entertained through the horrible tragedy that took place at Nickel Mines also doesn't seem right.

    Being an evangelical Christian Pastor, I learned a lot and was edified a lot by Kraybill and co.'s deep investigation into Amish Grace and what forgiveness is as the Amish see it, and as the Bible explains it. If you are curious about the whys, the suspected hypocrisies, or even the skepticism and doubt about the Amish and their forgiveness of this horrible tragedy, Kraybill, I believe, offers satisfying answers here.

    If you just want to take a study into what forgiveness is, this is a great place to study. Kraybill pulls no punches too, he will list chapter and verse that the Amish go to for their understanding of forgiveness. No matter if you're a Christian or not, or if you have a soft spot, or a skeptical spot for the Amish, this book ought to re-orient your thinking when considering how to respond to tragedies. I highly recommend it, and though I bought the Kindle version, I instantly bought a physical copy so I can share it.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on December 26, 2023
    This book gives a beautiful and powerful look at how forgiveness is critical to what it means to be a Christian. The Amish faith is built around the Lord's Prayer. While reading this book and after finishing it, I've talked about this book and this concept endlessly to people because I believe it needs to become the central focus of modern Christianity.

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  • Angelina
    5.0 out of 5 stars Vergeben,um frei zu werden
    Reviewed in Germany on December 3, 2021
    Dieses Buch befasst sich wirklich von allen Seiten betrachtet mit dem Thema Vergebung, wie es in den Gemeinschaften der Amish People gelebt wird. Und auch dann gelebt wird, wenn es zu sehr tragischen Ereignissen gekommen ist. Basierend auf der Vergebung, die Amish People dem Mörder ihrer Töchter gewährt haben nach einem real passierten Amoklauf, zeigt das Buch detailliert, wie schwer Vergebung ist. Es wird absolut nichts verherrlicht. Es wird auch deutlich, warum der Glaube der Amish People so stark gewachsen ist über Jahrhunderte. Diese Art der Vergebung läßt sich schwer auf moderne Gesellschaften 1 zu 1 übertragen. Dennoch empfand ich es als so wertvoll, mich der Vergebung zu nähern und auch zu lernen, dass Vergebung nicht Gnade oder Vergessen oder Verrat an die Getöteten bedeutet. Es bedeutet nach einem langen schweren Weg frei zu werden und wieder nach vorne sehen zu können
  • E. Hargreaves
    5.0 out of 5 stars This book is about the terrible event at a small school and their view on ...
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on August 30, 2018
    I find the Amish, their way of life and thinking, very interesting. This book is about the terrible event at a small school and their view on forgiveness. It is a beautiful book about a wonderful philosophy and christian faith. I haven't finished it yet, but would recommend it highly.
  • livre_bob
    4.0 out of 5 stars good
    Reviewed in Canada on September 23, 2015
    Very informative, good reading
  • michelle
    3.0 out of 5 stars amish grace
    Reviewed in Italy on September 20, 2013
    Ho preferito il film - questo libro è piu un racconto del perdono e molto ripettativa. Pensavo che parlava di piu delle persone e la loro modo di vita
  • E.Rigby
    5.0 out of 5 stars Un exemple de pardon
    Reviewed in France on April 18, 2012
    J'avais envie d'en savoir plus sur ce fait divers et sur la pensée Amish, je ne suis pas déçue. Mais serait-il possible d'étendre cette façon de vivre et de pardonner au monde moderne actuel??? Je me pose la question.

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